David Melse

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May 2023

Earlier this month I set a timer and started writing, my objective was to write for 15 minutes on the month of May and to provide a general update. As I’ve been doing for the previous two months.

For whatever reason I didn’t commit 100%, I wrote some updates but didn’t complete it, didn’t post it and therefore in my mind lost an opportunity. 

I’ve been reflecting on what’s important over the last 5 days of being isolated at home and I think this recent experience above hits the nail on the head. It really doesn’t matter what you partially complete. It matters what you finish and what you get done. 

I could have the most imaginative excuse or reason for not finishing that earlier article. It wouldn’t matter though, because in years to come when I look back on the blog and see a missing month update, I wouldn’t remember the excuse, I’d just see a blank space there, they’d be nothing, a void. 

Being an over thinker, it’s so easy to get caught in the cycle of wanting things to be perfect, nice and exact. Caring about details does matter but I don’t think it matters as much as being rough and ready and finishing things even if they’re not “perfect”. If you’re consistently getting things to near completion but not finishing I think it’s difficult to improve and get better. 

Just some thoughts while spending some quality time with myself recently. 

I’ve never taken covid that seriously, the first time I got it, it was nothing more than a slight inconvenience, a 3/10 on the severity scale. I remember it quite clearly as it was around April 2022, I was going 75Hard at the time, we had a few days of stormy weather and I remember the outdoor walks being a bit challenging but also not enough to give up on the challenge.

THIS TIME HOWEVER…. There is no way I’d be continuing on with 75Hard, I purposely bowed out of my 30Flex activities which light by comparison. 

Fortunately I’m back to around 70-80% today, not sure what the test will reveal later about if I’m still testing positive or not. 

What have I learned?

Other than the conclusion I’ve reached on finishing what you start and not even bothering starting if you’re not going to finish. 

Having quality food on hand made the experience significantly better than it could of been, thanks to Emily for that! 

I haven’t watched this much TV in a long time, binge watching TV series is something I used to do a lot of but not so much recently. It’s interesting how you can literally spend a whole day watching a show. No conclusion or verdict on what this means, just interesting when thinking about time and how you spend it. It’s quite addictive so I think like a lot vices, it’s some times best to be more cold turkey and not expose yourself to the risk. 

I see my timer is about to go off so I’ll wrap it up here. 

Only another 2 weeks at Goleman and then It’s back to self employment. I’ll have more time to create content and to document what’s happening.

Creating content around the $10 million, 10 years challenge is still a priority so if it’s blogs like this, podcasts or general social media content I thin it’s important and a part of the puzzle so I’m going to keep on doing it.