David Melse

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75Hard Phase 3

Beginning Jan 2, 2023 I’m going to record each day, partly as an accountability tool and partly as a record of the final and by far hardest of all the 75Hard challenges.

Nutrition Rules:

  • No sweet treats 

  • Nothing deep fried 

  • No pies

  • No pizza 

Book(s):

12 Rules for Living, Jordan Petersen

Day 1 - 2/1/23

Act of kindness:

Surprised Pete, Lucy and Emily with delivering takeaway coffees

Talked to a stranger:

Random European guy at the Old Ghost Road track, quite awkward but I did it

Power List:

  1. Instagram weekly summary post

  2. Financial recording of December 2022

  3. 10 minutes meditation

Summary:

Overall it was a great day, I forgot how much focus it does take to get through all the tasks, how much water 3.75L is and also what an adjustment of going from eating anything and everything to being restricted is. Finish time, 10:30pm approx.

Day 2 - 3/1/23

Act of kindness:

Tidied the house for Pete and Lucy and left some treats for them.

Talked to a stranger:

Friendly guy at the Truman Track who took our photo, 10/10 experience. Good sort.

Power List:

  1. 100 Push Ups

  2. Record and post a new podcast episode

  3. 10 minutes meditation

Summary:

Great day, 2 x amazing walks! (Truman Track and Devils Punchbowl falls. Lots of opportunities to talk to strangers but interestingly most people seem quite closed off and avoid eye contact / interacting with strangers. Finished nice and early, just before 9pm.

Day 3 - 4/1/23

Act of kindness:

Picked up a coffee / breakfast for Emily

Talked to a stranger:

Chatted with a lady at the gym

Power List:

  1. House cleaning - 30 mins min

  2. 30Flex business planning - 30 mins min

  3. 10 minutes meditation

Summary:

Another great day, 2 x walks, one around the city, one beach walk Sumner. 9:30pm finish.

Day 4 - 5/1/23

Act of kindness:

Helped a lady at Kmart lift some heavy items

Talked to a stranger:

2 x different conversations with guys at the gym

Power List:

  1. 60 minutes audio book

  2. 10 minutes Shakti

  3. 10 minutes meditation

Summary:

The second gym chat was better than the first! It was exceptional actually, talked about the $10m challenge / growth etc. Finished 8:30pm approx. Great day.

Day 5 - 6/1/23

Act of kindness:

Gave money to a homeless person

Talked to a stranger:

Talked with a new person at the gym.

Power List:

  1. Blog written and posted about 30Flex

  2. Count calories

  3. Do what I can do get the podcast on Spotify

Summary:

Great day overall, got the podcast on Spotify! First proper workout back after surgery. Universe provided with a conversation at the gym about property.

Day 6 - 7/1/23

Act of kindness:

Surprised Madison with a new pot plant

Talked to a stranger:

New guy at the gym

Power List:

  1. Post Job Ad

  2. Blog on hiring a VA

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

A good day overall, had the added requirements of 30Flex which will take some adjusting too but overall a good day with an 8pm finish time.

Day 7 - 8/1/23

Act of kindness:

Returned lost gym pass

Talked to a stranger:

Older lady at Opuke

Power List:

  1. Podcast recorded on 30Flex

  2. 10 mins Shakti

  3. 321 Bed time routine

Summary:

An amazing day, I’m noticing I am feeling the pressure of the act of kindness and the stranger, especially when left until the afternoon so my mission going forward is to tick these tasks off in the morning.

Day 8 - 9/1/23

Act of kindness:

Picked up rubbish

Talked to a stranger:

Talked to the lady at the Uniform Shop as well as a great conversation with someone at the gym, a good reminder of how much you can learn from strangers

Power List:

  1. Ship all orders at work

  2. 10 mins Shakti

  3. 321 Bedtime routine

Summary:

A really good day, finished the earliest yet at around 5pm. Feeling fatigued though so aiming to take it easy Day 9. Sleeping is going well so will keep going with the 321 strategy.

Day 9 - 10/1/23

Act of kindness:

Brought another plant / donated to charity

Talked to a stranger:

New Gym Team Member

Power List:

  1. 321 Bedtime Routine

  2. 10 Mins Meditation

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

Strong start to the day, slept well, starting fading early evening, nailed the 321 bed time and seems to working so will keep going.

Day 10 - 11/1/23

Act of kindness:

Done

Talked to a stranger:

Done

Power List:

  1. 10 mins meditation

  2. 200 Russian Twists

  3. 10 mins Shakti

Summary:

n/a

Day 11 - 12/1/23

Act of kindness:

Brought a coffee for a friend

Talked to a stranger:

Nurse

Power List:

  1. 200 Russian Twists

  2. 10 Mins meditation

  3. 10 Mins Shakti

Summary:

Late start on both workouts, long day.

Day 12 - 13/1/23

Act of kindness:

Donated blood

Talked to a stranger:

NZ Blood person

Power List:

  1. Posted job ad in Greymouth FB Group

  2. Messaged “Frank” about Weka

  3. Messaged “Tim” about bad debt

Summary:

An AMAZING Day! So good, perfect weather, got through the tasks for both Phase 3 & 30Flex comfortably. Ran 1km and felt good.

Day 13 - 14/1/23

Act of kindness:

Emily coffee

Talked to a stranger:

Guy outside apartment

Power List:

  1. Schedule 2 x VA interviews

  2. 10 Minutes Shakti

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

Another really good day, ticked off the exercise nice and early, left it way too late for the power list items but got there before 10:30pm!

Day 14 - 15/1/23

Act of kindness:

Emily breakfast

Talked to a stranger:

Group outside apartment

Power List:

  1. Clean apartment

  2. 10 mins Shakti

  3. Download Timelapse footage

Summary:

Super good day, early morning gym, sunny, beach walk with Emily (and Poppy the dog) got clear on goals for the year and timeline

Day 15 - 16/1/23

Act of kindness:

Wrap for Pete

Talked to a stranger:

Homeless person

Power List:

  1. Podcast recorded

  2. Booked in a guest podcast

  3. 10 minutes Shakti

Summary:

Coming soon…

Day 16 - 17/1/23

Act of kindness:

Got Madison a muffin

Talked to a stranger:

Guy in the bakery

Power List:

  1. 200 Russian Twists

  2. 10 Minutes Meditation

  3. 1 hour audio book

Summary:

Another great day, looked some properties, finished around 9pm. Good day for a Monday.

Day 17 - 18/1/23

Act of kindness:

Bracelet for Emily (brought off Madison) double kindness

Talked to a stranger:

Coffee lady at work

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Meditation

  2. 200 Russian Twists

  3. 10 Mins Shakti

Summary:

Great day, mega early night, in bed by 8:20pm

Day 18 - 19/1/23

Act of kindness:

Donation to Womens Shelter

Talked to a stranger:

Lady in apartment foyer

Power List:

  1. Record Podcast

  2. 10 Mins meditation

  3. 10 Mins Shakti

Summary:

A great day overall! Feeling a slight amount of fatigue which I’ve noticed on previous challenges, a combination of the physically activity stacking up + other commitments consuming energy. Feeling good but can feel the need to try and recover. A great sleep last night helped.

Day 19 - 20/1/23

Act of kindness:

Money homeless person at Riccarton Mall

Talked to a stranger:

Lady at Sushi Place

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Shakti

  2. 200 Russian Twists

  3. 10 Mins Meditation

Summary:

n/a

Day 20 - 21/1/23

Act of kindness:

Pedestrian on Barbadoes Street

Talked to a stranger:

Guy in Cafe

Power List:

  1. Edit and Post Jason Fox Podcast

  2. 200 Russian Twists

  3. 10 Minutes Meditation

Summary:

Editing the podcast was a great power list to commit too, could of very easily of procrastinated on that!

Day 21 - 22/1/23

Act of kindness:

Courier at apartment

Talked to a stranger:

Neighbour on 3rd floor

Power List:

  1. Shared the Jason Fox podcast

  2. 30Flex website live

  3. 10 mins meditation

Summary:

Fairly strong day, tried swimming for one of the workouts, failed! A humbling experience and potentially something to work on this year

Day 22 - 23/1/23

Act of kindness:

Emily Dinner

Talked to a stranger:

Courier

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Meditation

  2. 10 Mins Shakti

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

n/a

Day 23 - 24/1/23

Act of kindness:

Madison

Talked to a stranger:

Stranger at the Mall

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Meditation

  2. 10 Mins Shakti

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

n/a

Day 24 - 25/1/23

Act of kindness:

Snack wrap Peter

Talked to a stranger:

New Gym Person

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Meditation

  2. 10 Mins Shakti

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

n/a

Day 25 - 26/1/23

Act of kindness:

Paid for a friends breakfast

Talked to a stranger:

Cafe Server

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Meditation

  2. 10 Mins Shakti

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

n/a

Day 26 - 27/1/23

Act of kindness:

Womens refuge donation

Talked to a stranger:

Met a new guy, Tom at the gym

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Meditation

  2. 10 Mins Shakti

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

The latest finish of the challenge, around 11pm getting the walk finished off, a reminder of the importance of the morning workout during the work week

Day 27 - 28/1/23

Act of kindness:

Tracked down some contact solution for Emily, Shout out Josh Komen

Talked to a stranger:

Cafe lady

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Meditation

  2. 10 Mins Shakti

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

Coal Creek Waterfall walk to finish the day which was epic!

Day 28 - 29/1/23

Act of kindness:

Picked up Dad some items from the Supermarket

Talked to a stranger:

Random guy at Kumara

Power List:

  1. 10 Mins Meditation

  2. 10 Mins Shakti

  3. 200 Russian Twists

Summary:

Traveled back from the West Coast, some nice walks over there. Awesome weather, great weekend.

Day 29 - 30/1/23

Act of kindness:

Making Emily coffee

Talked to a stranger:

Several at NZ Blood

Power List:

  1. Posting podcast Ep 22.

  2. Giving blood

  3. 10 minutes meditation

Summary:

Early finish at around 6pm, feeling good but also feeling the fatigue and tiredness from the 29 days.

Day 30- 31/1/23

Act of kindness:

Gift for Emily

Talked to a stranger:

Mike at the Gym

Power List:

  1. 200 Russian Twists

  2. 10 Minutes Meditation

  3. 10 Minutes Shakti

Summary:

A very strong end to the challenge. Great chat with a stranger. Special moment with Emily.

Phase 3 Summary:

It’s an amazing feeling to tick off the full “Live Hard” year.

The nice thing is that I haven’t got the same usual come down as I have when finishing previous phases.

Truely a life changing year and experience. I whole heartedly recommend this to anyone, in fact I think everyone should DO THIS.

I’ll likely summarise this year in a future blog and or podcast but for now. Do 75Hard or if that seems to much, take a look at 30Flex I designed that as a way to condition yourself to daily habits without jumping straight into the deep end.